Monthly Archives: August 2017

A Moment of Sadness

Do you know someone who does not cry.  Who expects only strength from fellow women?  Read this text I sent the other day to such a young woman.

Glad u had that moment of sadness.  A moment of poor me.  It makes u human.  It makes u stronger.  It will make u compassionate in your chosen field.  Those who have a pain free life are never prepared for life’s hurdles.  They don’t know how to look at a situation and fix it.  With your issue you need to honestly look at it and fix it.fix it

So after I sent this text this young woman called me up and thanked me.

This situation made me realize we all need to have a moment of sadness in our lives.  It can give us strength.  It can cleanse our problems and force us to look at what is really causing those tears.  With that knowledge we can fix the problem and as a bonus be a little more compassionate for others with similar issues in the future.

Love and live life, tears and all.


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NICE is Power

Are you a nice person?  I am.  Been told at times to nice. According to La La Anthony’s book, The Power Playbook, being nice leads to power.

I have tried not to be “so” nice.  I put on my tough face.  I try to be a silent powerful force.ANGRY FACE I encourage myself to not say “Good Morning”.  It only lasts 10 minutes before smiles and “can I help with that” bubbles out of me. Reading La La’s book made me realize it’s ok to be nice.  Nice leads to power in your life.  She made me realize that my being nice is actually my gift.

Nice is POWER

Being nice has given me the power to take care of my family.  It enables me to continue to grow my eBay business.  Being nice enabled me this past year to make a career change in a down economy so that I can provide my family with much needed medical benefits. Have you figured out that I work a ton?  I do but you would never know it because I am nice!  (I only whine to a few select friends!) Being nice got me the job and continues to grow my online business.  Being nice makes me happy.  Being nice allows me to continue to reach for the stars.

Life Can Steal Nice

No matter how tired I am.  No matter how sad I am.  No matter if I just got bad news, I am a nice person.  I have to admit menopause is testing my nice behavior.  But for the HAPPYmost part I do not let my moods control the nice person that I am.  Now I must fess up.  I am one of those people who when stress hits I fall into my work and work makes me happy.  Thus it may be easier for me to be nicer than the average person cause I work so darn much!

Not Everyone Likes Nice

Those of you who have read my past post you know that I am trying to find a sense of who I am now that I am in my 40’s.  After reading about nice in La La’s book, I am happy to find that my being nice is power.  Reflection has also made me realize the following:

  • I allow not so nice people to crush me.  It’s hard for me to understand such unhappiness.  I have lived a hard life and I am nice.  How can they not be nice when I am?  I find myself avoiding not so nice people.
    • I plan to not judge and not let others attitudes affect me.
  • I have found myself trying to force my nice nature on others.
    • I plan to be nice and approachable as always but not go overboard on the non-receptive.  Let’s face it.  Not everyone likes nice.  It can be annoying to some so I need to respect that.  I will still be nice but give them space.
  • I am not going to apologize for being nice.  Being nice is just who I am.  It is a gift.  I see now how many opportunities I have been given in life just from being nice.

Nice or Not so Nice

If you are nice, realize it leads to power in life.  Don’t try to change who you are.  If you are not overly nice it’s not to late to be nicer.  Remember Nice leads to Power.  Figure out why you are not nice.  Are there changes you need to make in your life?  Manage your moods and keep them out of the work place.  Make an effort to be nice.  Take baby steps and you will be surprised by the outcome.  SMILE

Take care,


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Self Doubt to Confidence

For me being in my 40’s has had a positive effect.  For the first time in my life I feel comfortable in my own skin.  It makes me wonder what was I missing in my teens, 20’s and 30’s?

I have come to a realization lately that my level of comfort was only due to a safe safeenvironment I crafted for myself.  Self doubt never had a chance to creep back into my life.  My career and friends were hand selected to ensure safety and success.  Anyone or anything that altered those positive feelings were avoided.  What I was missing in my 20’s and 30’s was never actually found.

My realization has come about due to a career change, my children growing up and lovely menopause.  I feel blessed to have this sudden revelation.  I had a false confidence of me but plan to develop a real sense of who I am.  As I work on me I hope to strengthen my relationships with my family and friends.  And maybe I will even allow some new relationships to enter my life!

My first step is to read and listen to some great books for real life tips.  I am actually juggling two books now.  You are a  BADASS you are a badassby Jen Sincero and The Power Playbook by La La The power playbookAnthony.  The Badass book I am reading by hard copy.  The Power Playbook I am listening to in audio on my way to work and while I grow my eBay business in the evenings and weekends.

My next step is to share how I evolve.  They say “sharing is caring.”  Sharing my own grown each Sunday may create a difference for someone in similar shoes.   So if you are an eBay customer who follows my online clothing store or if you have just stumbled on this article I hope you enjoy and grow with me.

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